By: Kelly Leary, M.S., CEO/Head Matchmaker
“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”~~Ferris Bueller
Happy March to all of our clients, friends, and couples. Spring is days away. This is a time for new beginnings and refreshing. Spring cleaning is not only for the home. It’s for the soul. If you find yourself nesting and making your surroundings even more beautiful this time of year, remember to prioritize your personal life too. There is no better anti-aging phenomenon than falling in love. You are never too old and it is never too late! In the here and now, calm your heart and light up your soul. Positive things are about to happen for you! Ready. Set. Go.
🍀1. Believe In Yourself. What do you love about YOU? Regardless of your age, clothing size, or status—know that you have a lot to offer. Your future guy or girl (who is right around the corner) will feel the same way too. Banish self-doubt. Confidence mixed with kindness is appealing. Don’t let the noise between your ears talk you out of dating. All of the good ones are not taken~~just look in the mirror!
🍀2. Minimize Time Killers. Decrease your time on social media sites. Intentional change your patterns this March and socialize IRL (in real life). Walk away from the dating app trap and hire a professional to do the work for you. Stop dating that man or woman that you know is not the one. Focus your energy in a positive direction. If someone or something is not serving you–cut the ties.
🍀3. Be Vulnerable. Fear of rejection should not govern you. If you sense that this is your problem, talk to a trusted friend or a therapist. My team and I are always available for questions too, if you need a neutral and honest opinion. When you date with intention, the dating process will be much more fun than you think. Half of this is who we date, but the other half is how we date. So many people find the right one who has everything they are looking for and they are so afraid of rejection that they either self-sabotage or freeze.
🍀4. Cool Down Urges. Overdoing food, drink, or any other vice is a surefire way to sabotage the balance of your romantic future. If you find yourself overindulging and doing things you should not be doing or dating people you should not be dating, you are only destroying the chances of living your best life. You are essentially blocking yourself from love. I.E. Thwart your own escape tendencies and face the mystical music of love that you yearn for deep down.
🍀5. Walk It Off. Movement is key and is a cure for mild depression and/or anxiety. The next time you find yourself plopping down on the couch after dinner, go for a 30-minute walk instead. The rewards of action versus stillness are too profound to measure. Your mind will relax and create more space for loving people and thoughts. This is medical science. You will sleep better too. Your future companion will appreciate your extra beauty sleep!
🍀6. Reconnect by Disconnecting. Instead of spending time alone in front of the television or on social media, make a date with someone you would like to get to know better–or make an appointment with me. The point is: If you don’t know anyone to connect with, we can help make an introduction for you. It is not what you know, it is who you know. It’s simple. It’s math. It’s smart. Life is all about connecting.
🍀7. Expand Your Circle. Make new friends and see new places. Challenge yourself. Awaken. It’s good for your brain…not to mention your love life and your health. Dare to do something out of your daily grind. Do it today. Variety is the “spice of life” and will compliment your life, year, mind, heart, and soul. You deserve it too. Refill that love tank. You have waited long enough and missed out on enough this past twelve months. So, keep calm and go for it! You’re alive and the world is full of wonder this Spring of 2023.
We have always had an impressive draw of people in this club, but I have to say that the clientele we are meeting this year and last year is different and even more impressive than in prior years. With the online dating nose dive gone rampant in Florida, quality singles are more likely to hire a verified matchmaker (with a physical local office). I’ve also noticed that people that would usually not commit are committing. Exclusivity is on the rise. Pairing Off is trending. These facts make online dating and the bar scene even more undesirable for Florida singles. So where do the good ones go? HERE, my friend.
We have also noticed that our clients are falling in love quicker than in years prior. The “L-word” comes easier these days. Exclusivity is making a comeback. Traditional one-on-one dating is on the rise leading to sustainable courtships and/or forever love. This is just the happiest news ever, right?
Thanks for spending your time with me again today. I am looking forward to catching up with you soon. Please mention this article for priority booking when you are on the phone with one of my matchmakers! Our schedules are filling up quickly this year (lucky you…the more the merrier).
Happy Saint Patrick’s Day to all! Let’s celebrate together!
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Kelly Leary© has 33 years in the dating industry and a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by Florida Woman Magazine, The Palm Beach Post, Stuart Magazine, and other local publications. All Revolution Dating clients are prescreened in person in their private corporate office. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive membership, each membership is custom made to suit you and your needs. For more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit www.revolutiondating.com . *All inquiries are confidential. *Representing Ages 21 to 81.