Special Holiday Edition by: Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli, The Real Matchmakers
And just like that, we find ourselves in the magical month of December. So, did you love more in 2024? If you fell short of your personal goals this year, here are Four Secret Santa Tips destined to increase the odds of wrapping up December with a big red bow. Now is the time to bask in all of your hard work invested in family, friends, and business in 2024. This is the perfect time to show some extra love to yourself. If your circle is authentic, they will adore this ramping up in you–and therein lies a gift to the people you love. Ready to rock December with us? Simply cut this article out and read it often all month long and do share this with your single family and friends too. Thank us later.
1. Splurge on YOU.
Giving yourself gifts of love and attention will automatically trigger your brain to say “I am worth it!” Parents, grandparents, and over-nurturers can get stuck in a path of thinking solely about others. As matchmakers, we urge you to put yourself first. This is a gift of acknowledging how hard you have worked this year. Spoil yourself with a gift that keeps on giving –I.E. better connections and better relationships. Your loved ones will appreciate the newfound smile on your face. NOW, that’s a GIFT.
At Revolution Dating, we see this principle come to life every day with clients of all ages. Clients who are confident, successful, and self-aware tend to attract partners who reflect those same qualities. This December, prioritize YOU. We have clients enroll on December 30th–and guess what–they are guaranteed to have a secret glow on New Years Eve 2025–even if they don’t have their dating portfolio ready yet. Hope is an inevitable aphrodisiac and it is contagious.
2. Let Romantic LOVE be Your North Star.
Love comes in many forms—look for it everywhere–because it is all around you. Enjoy all forms of love from platonic to romantic to familial to self-love. The holiday season is an ideal time to reconnect with those who matter most to you. Notice love. Notice your need for love.
For singles, this is an excellent time to meet someone new. There is a certain openness this time of year–only found in December–and especially at Revolution Dating which happens to be the Corporate Headquarters of Love, est. 2014.
3. End with the Lesson of JOY
Have you taken yourself or others too seriously this past year? December highlights celebration, compassion, and laughter–and that is all.
If you’re single, loosen up and elevate your mindset. A shared laugh can turn a good experience into a great one. Create memories that linger long after the holidays.
Joy is the best feeling on Earth. It makes it all worthwhile. Could you use more joy in your life? Follow us for more…joy.
4. It is NEVER too late!
Start at 40. Start at 70. Start in December. Start at 5:00pm. Just start. Abundance isn’t just about material wealth; it’s a state of mind. In dating and relationships, a healthy mindset means knowing that opportunities are endless, and the best is yet to come.
Shift your focus this December from what’s missing to what you have and you will have even more because your are grateful. Celebrate the little victories: a great conversation, a kind gesture, or even the courage to put yourself out there. When you view the world through the lens of gratitude and possibility, you naturally attract more of the same.
At Revolution Dating, we see time and again how an abundant mindset transforms our clients’ love lives. Those who believe in their worth and trust the journey tend to experience greater success—not because they’re lucky, but because they’re open to receiving the love and joy they deserve. They are open to our guidance and faith in them. We only want the best for our clients–and usually they only want the best for themselves. Add a dash of realism to that recipe and you are on your way to a delicious December.
At Revolution Dating, we believe the final chapter of the year should be the best part of the year and it will help you to create an even better 2025. The predictions are in: We are all about to walk into one of the best years of our lives. So, let’s set ourselves up for some extra love in our personal lives. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this month is a marker for good moves and action.
So, as you deck the halls and countdown to midnight, remember: your December can be filled with excellence, laughter, and abundance. And who knows? It might just be the month that changes everything. Fall into Romance this holiday season with the help from The Pros!
Thank you so much for following us for so many years. We appreciate your loyalty and love. Wishing you and yours a very Happy Holiday Season 2024! Stay tuned for more love.
Xoxo – Kelly & Miranda
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Kelly Leary© has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has also been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened in person including background checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her Team also provide feedback from your dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the North East. Call the main hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to hold your place in the club.
