By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating
“When everything changes, change everything!”~~ Neale Donald Walsch
Happy August to all of our loyal readers. I look forward to hearing from all of you each month and I thank you again for spreading our message of love around town. It’s nice to be on the good side of the news, right? Keep on keeping on!
My message today is of one of hope. First of all, I hope you all had a nice summer despite the pandemic. No doubt, we are all feeling the change in our world. The end of summer marks the closure of a season like no other. August resurrects what we “didn’t do” over the summer …almost like New Years Resolutions. Did you find summer love? Did you hit the beach enough? Did you make the positive changes you desired even amidst the COVID crisis? Realize, despite all the change in our lives, the BIG holidays are still coming. Luckily, we have time to rise above the chaos of the year. We have FOUR more months to get it right! We can and should end strong. We should revisit our goals and create a new reality for the finale of 2020. Wouldn’t it be nice to end this crazy year on high note?
This is our plan for all of you. Let me help you to get inspired again. Where there is hope, there is love and vice versa. Do follow these simple steps and get ahead of it all. NOTE: People that join in August are more likely to find their match by the holidays.
Ironically, during this social distancing era, the desire to connect is dominant in single adults. This is normal and now the most popular question I receive is: “How does your club work?” Do read on for my answer…
Step 1: Admit you are READY to find love and/or companionship. Our club helps men and women from their twenties well into their happy eighties. Romance is ageless. Don’t limit yourself.
Step 2: Identify WHY you want to fall in love and find companionship. Some people just want to have someone to go out to dinner with, while others want to get married and have children. Others are feeling lonely and tired of being the third or fifth wheel. These are all good reasons to make a change. Frankly, if you are reading this article, you may need a change too. People are realizing that life is passing them by, the bar scene is no longer an option and online dating is more dangerous than ever. Procrastination and excuses only kill time. He who hesitates is lost.
Step 3: Call us to get it right–finally! Is something holding you back? Nerves? Fear? COVID? Whatever your issue is–let it go. No one ever progressed in life being fearful. Stick to this plan. Wear a mask. Stay on point. Don’t waiver.
Step 4: Schedule your appointment to meet with us. Go through the enlightening screening process that I developed over my 29 years in the love biz and if we like you and you like us–join the club! We call this “The Enrollment Phase.”
Step 5: Ready. Set. Enjoy. We create your club bio collaboratively. Following this process, the matchmaking will begin! It’s just like meeting through introduction by a friend (only we know more candidates). Everything can be done over the phone, in person, or through email/mail. It’s your preference. How ideal—especially now!
Step 6: Trust your matchmakers. Let us take the lead and shed light on things that may be holding you back romantically. We are just working to get closer to the right match by building a good rapport with you. We are truly in this together!
Step 7: Collaborate with us! Call/text/email and share your feedback. Some have success on the first date and some on the tenth date–but no match will be a debacle (like online dating) because we know everyone and have validated them! There is a kinship within the club members.
Step 8: Know thyself and be accountable. If you are only after “TENs” in the club and you are a “SEVEN” be prepared for some letdowns. Ask us what you can do to get that guy or girl. We will tell you honestly and advise you. Remember we are “cupids” and not “unicorns”…we have magic and love in us, but we can’t do the job alone. Sadly, some people are unrealistic and this could lead to frustration while dating. Don’t kill the messenger! Perhaps, you are the problem? Be open minded. Listen. Don’t push what doesn’t belong. There is someone for everyone (of all ages). There is a pot for every lid.
Step 9: You found love! You listened. You took our recommendations. So, welcome to final phase! You are an #RDCouple! It is time to put your membership on HOLD (I.E. freeze your membership). Why? Because you followed these steps. It’s science. That’s why you called to begin with, my friend. You are clearly date worthy and we love you for it! At Revolution Dating, we do try to avoid enrolling non-compliant/difficult people as a rule. They are not that fun, right? Clearly, you are a catch. We knew it and so did you!
Step 10: Share and tell all of your friends about the love you have found and how you found it. This will bring more love into your life. In other words, pass it on. Whether you are single, divorced or widowed, we can help. Thank you to our many clients who have been talking about us out there and spreading the word! The more the merrier. Love always wins. #TellYourFriends
Congratulations on completing the process. I can’t wait to hear your love story too! The love in us honors the love in you today and every day. I wish you and yours so much health and happiness! #RestartSmart #WhenInDoubtLoveMore #Crush2020 #KISS
Kelly Leary© has 29 years in the dating industry and a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened including background checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club membership. Please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) in South Florida or 772-934-HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast or visit www.revolutiondating.com for more information. All inquiries are confidential.