By: Kelly Leary, M. S. , The Florida Matchmaker, est. 1991
Have you noticed the holiday sizzle has started early this year? We have at the corporate headquarters of love and it is very exciting. So, if you are single, divorced or widowed, understand that you have options beyond online dating. If you are in a relationship, do give your single family and friends the gift of hope this november and share this column so that they can spend their holiday time wisely too. Don’t make them feel bad and ask: “why are you still single? ” instead talk about solutions. Make them feel excited about what is to come off of those silly dating apps… Or… Off of their sofa!
Here is the who, what, when, where, how scoop on how to hack the single blues during the holiday season. It is our duty to serve and to help people connect. Connection is very important to your mental, physical and emotional health.
Who: the focus should be on you. You are a catch. You have much to offer in a relationship with the right person. Whether you have a good job and/or you are a good parent, you have a good life with everything you need. However, there is just one thing missing. This is the moment for you to spread your wild wings and connect with someone that adores and appreciates you. Look for someone who knows how to love and is not fatally broken like so many others–especially online dating keyboard warriors. Create your idea of what pairing off could look like during this holiday season. Empower yourself with the solution and do it for you.
Recently, i had a couple become engaged after just four weeks of dating.What: accept the inevitable facts of what is about to happen. The holiday season can be very demanding and challenging when it comes to the stigma of being single. Thanksgiving, for example, is typically portrayed as a picturesque image of hugs and laughter and perfect couples and/or families surrounding the turkey. Yet, for the majority of americans, that is not the case whatsoever. Interestingly, stats point to around 30% of the population spending thanksgiving completely alone this year. This is why you need to take action sooner than later. You are single, but you can change it. Change what is to come in your future by taking a positive step to change it up… Today. Consequently, you may also be changing what you will be doing on new years eve too!
Where: where will you be during the holiday season? Remember, single people were kind of “stuck” for the last couple of years (and many were stuck for much longer than the holidays). Travel was limited. Another variant was spoiling the fun. We also know divorces and break-ups soared recently. Thousands of single adults moved to florida in the last year from all around the country. This means more available quality men and women in florida. Many of our new clients are new to the area entirely and they know no one in the area so many are taking the plunge now. Think about where you want to be in life and do spend your time wisely. Go where the quality single men and women are going.
When: the sooner the better. Make that one decision now, stop over thinking, and start today. If you are single right now, just knowing you are doing something about it will raise your energy and mindset immensely. You will have hope. You will be ditching the dating apps and upgrading your odds of romance in one strategic move. Take this as a unique chance to revisit and rewire your expectations. This is the one decision that could and will change your love trajectory forever. If you don’t have a forever partner at this very moment, taking action now will give you peace for the weeks to come. You will be starting the new year with a new partner by taking action in the here and now. It’s just smart thinking.
How: hit your delete button on negative thinking and misconceptions about dating. Let go of your fears. The past is officially over and behind you. Leave your comfort zone. Some have risen to the occasion and seized the day. Others have remained a bit frozen and in idle for way too long. Thankfully committed love is on the rise right now–this month–so don’t miss the good positive energy around us. Timing is everything and “couples season” has begun! The odds of pairing off in november and december are in your favor and this is how you change your luck. Make a forward movement. People are in the mood for drastic and bold changes. ’tis the season.
The bottom line is: you have been thinking about this for a while. It’s been too long solo or in the wrong relationship. Do something different for you and find out whats happening here too. Discover what’s new at revolution dating 2022. Discover who is new too. The new drop of clientele is full of wow and we have photographs to prove it for those entitled to see them. Membership does have its’ privileges.
We can’t wait to bring you up to date and to get you dating before the ball drops on the eve of 2023! Time flies! Spend it wisely.
Carpe Diem and Happy Thanksgiving!
Xoxo, Kelly & the Revolution Dating Team
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Kelly Leary has 31 years in the dating industry and a masters degree in psychology. Shes been profiled by the palm beach post, palmbeacher magazine, stuart news, florida woman, etc.. Revolution dating members are pre-screened. Professional photos are taken in house. Revolution dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles un-single through their exclusive club membership, kelly and her team also provide feedback from your dates when appropriate. Call 561-630-xoxo (9696) or 772-932-here (4373) for a live interview with a matchmaker for the quickest service. You may also visit us at www. Revolutiondating. Com. *all inquiries are confidential.