By: Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli
“It’s important for people to remember that we are the creators of our lives instead of the victims of it.” ~~Dr. Joe Dispenza
Happy Spring from our Revolution Family to yours. This month–we are gifting you some extra love because we are so thankful to you all. Keepsake love notes are special because they hold sentimental value. These love notes are designed specifically for our loyal readers, Single or Taken. The annotations below physically represent the care and research we put into our work. You can hold on to these love notes or pass them along to someone who may need to hear them. Read to the end to discover the most vital note–guaranteed to elevate your mindset this month.
❤️Practice kindness. If you don’t practice kindness in life, love, work and play, you will reap what you sow. One of the biggest turnoffs is coming into the gate – or date, or room, or party – with a bad attitude.
❤️First impressions matter. We have learned that your impression of a person usually forms in the first 60 seconds. So make sure that your “hello” is a good one.
❤️Age is just a number! It’s never too late, but don’t get stuck on the bench. You are not getting any younger.
❤️Love begets love. Our office rule is: “Only Love is Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind, and you will get a second date! No one likes a grouch.
❤️Successful Dating requires Time, Money, and Emotion: Dating is a “Relationship Investment” of all three, so get used to it. With our pre-screened clients, relationships move along quickly and yield a higher ROI. If you don’t invest, you won’t progress.
❤️Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day of the week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes to success in date-land. Exterior beauty might get you in the door, but can you get a second date? Inner beauty is key.
❤️If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul search. Are you doing the work to be your best self? Or are you expecting your matchmaker to deliver love to your doorstep like a pizza? Matchmaking is a collaboration. Connect, bond, show your good side, listen to feedback, cooperate, and be open to advice. If you go to your doctor and don’t listen to one word of his advice, fail to take your medicine and remain sick, is it your doctor’s fault? No.
❤️Don’t be too picky. We have a female client who won’t date a man under 6’4″. If your criteria is strict, be prepared to wait longer than someone more open-minded. High standards are acceptable if you understand the other person must like YOU back. Dating is a combat sport. Be realistic and self-aware.
❤️Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t abuse this love note or use them for a free meal. Always be courteous and say “thank you!”
❤️Maintain an attitude of gratitude. This applies to your love life and far beyond.
❤️More good than bad. If your date is relatively reasonable and only a bit questionable, give it the green light and continue to the next date.
❤️50:50. This is about talking too much–not paying the tab! While dating, keep an eye on your conversation and your listening skills. Take turns. Your discussion should be shared equally. If someone is doing 90% of the talking, there is a problem. You won’t get the second date.
❤️When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break up through an email or text. Be forthright but humble.
❤️Grieving is brutal but essential. Everyone has their own timeline. You will know when you are ready to get back in the game. In this day and age, seniors are dating after losing a spouse, and they are finding a new companion. Avoid comparisons. Give yourself permission to start a new chapter with new actors and a new plot.
❤️Join the love movement just for YOU. Stand up for something that you want in your life moving forward. Be part of your own solution, not your own problem. Get out of your own way.
❤️Cowards never start, winners never quit, and quitters never win. Don’t ever quit on love. Remember, fear is the opposite of love.
❤️Dating is a journey. There will be highs and lows. Focus on the destination.
❤️Online dating is a horror story. You could lose it all–the same way people can lose themselves in Las Vegas! Stop rolling the dice. If you stay too long, you may never come back emotionally or physically. Turn on any streaming service, and you will see the reality of online dating. The following stories are based on true life events.
Here is a list made just for you by your matchmakers:
-Lover, Stalker, Killer
-Love, Janessa (Podcast Series)
-The Tinder Swindler
-Dirty John
-Sweet Bobby: My Catfish Nightmare
-Fake Profile
-Why Did You Kill Me?
-Untold: The Girlfriend Who Didn’t Exist
Thank you so much for following the real matchmakers for over three decades! This month, we are celebrating 34 years in the love industry and eleven years of Revolution Dating (a brick-and-mortar powerhouse of a business). We invite you to join us in our LOVE movement. You have arrived.
Much Love & Gratitude,
Kelly & Miranda
#34YearsOfExperience #WhyWaitJustDate #LoveOffline #MatchmakingRoyalty #TellYourFriends #ComeAliveIn2025
Kelly Leary© has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person, including background checks and ID verification. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her A-List Team also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast/Tri-State Area. Do call the central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to hold your place in the club. Time flies!