by: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating
Are you finally ready to get out there again but don’t know where to begin? Are you dating the wrong person or telling yourself you are happy being single? Are you concerned about intensified risks associated with online dating? If so, read on and do tell your friends!
One FULL year of pandemic life has placed many of us on a “wake up~repeat cycle” but this is all changing rapidly in a good way and I hope you are too! Enjoy these SEVEN DATING HACKS to help you restart smart! Open up your eyes to the possibilities that are in front of you. Strike while the flame of love is high for so many of you. The time is now — especially if you have been waiting and watching for the magical moment to arrive!
🍀1. Believe In Yourself. Regardless of your age, clothing size or status—you have a lot to offer. It’s your turn. Your guy or girl feels the same way too. Now, there is no reason to wait to come see us. Join the love movement for you and meet people like you in real life.
🍀2. Minimize Time Killers. Cease gossiping and avoid those who gossip. Decrease your social media time (ESPECIALLY THESE DAYS). It’s not real. Try to put your screen down and live in the real world touching, hugging and laughing in tandem. Get off those time-wasting online dating sites. Stop dating that man or woman that you know is just not the “one.” Focus your energy in a positive direction. Just say YES to anything that may add value to your life. YES is a powerful word!
🍀3. Reject Your Fears. You will regret the things you didn’t do way more than the things you did. Think Vince Lombardi, Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey. Rejection didn’t imprison them, so why should it freeze you? This jumpstart on romance is ideal for those who do not hesitate.
🍀4. Cool Down Urges to Avoid Romance. Overdoing in food, drink, or any other vice is a surefire way to sabotage the balance of your romantic future. If you find yourself overindulging and doing things you should not be doing or dating people you should not be dating, you are only destroying the chances of living your best life. You are essentially blocking yourself from love. I.E. Thwart your own escape tendencies and face the mystic music of love that you yearn for deep down.
🍀5. Walk It Off! Movement is key and is a cure for mild depression and/or anxiety. The next time you find yourself plopping down on the couch after dinner, go for a 30 minute walk instead. The rewards of action versus stillness are too profound to measure. Your mind will relax and create more space for loving people and thoughts. This is medical science. You will sleep better too. Your future companion will appreciate your extra beauty sleep!
🍀6. Reconnect by Disconnecting. Instead of spending time alone in front of the television or on social media, make a date with someone you would like to get to know better–or make an appointment with me. (Do call quickly as my schedule is already filling up for the month of March!) The point is: If you don’t know anyone to connect with, we can help make an introduction for you. It is not what you know, it is who you know. It’s simple. It’s math. It’s smart. It’s connecting!
🍀7. Expand Your Circle. Make new friends and see new places. Challenge yourself. Awaken. It’s good for your brain…not to mention your love life and your health. Dare to do something out of your daily grind–today. Variety is the “spice of life” and will compliment your life, your year, your mind, heart and soul. You deserve it too. Refill that love tank. You have waited long enough and missed out on enough this past twelve months. So, keep calm and go for it this March! You’re alive and the world is full of wonder this Spring.
The Pandemic has hopefully brought us closer, despite the social distancing. This has been good for dating, and as a result, there is an uptick in authentic candidates. There is more sincerity and positivity to the people I meet daily in my office, regardless of their age.
People that would usually not commit are committing. Exclusivity is on the rise. Pandemic pairing is trending now at our office.
At the end of the day, the pandemic has created a unique set of circumstances that is acting like an elixir for relationships. This magical time can bring you and your future partner together.
We have heard the “L-word” comes easier these days. Dating is making a come back. Traditional–step by step dating is on the rise leading to nice courtships.
Even though your life has been on hold for so long, love still finds a way! We are happy to be your tour guide too! The more the merrier. Looking forward to meeting you soon, my lucky friend.
Thanks for spending your time with me again today. Looking forward to meeting you soon, my lucky friend.
Much Love, Xoxo, Kelly
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Kelly Leary© has 31 years in the dating industry and a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, and other nationwide publications. All Revolution Dating clients are prescreened in person in their private offices. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive membership. Each membership is custom made to suit you and your needs. For more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit www.revolutiondating.com . *All inquiries are confidential. *Representing Ages 21 to 81.