By: Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli (The Award-Winning Matchmakers)
“To truly change the way we approach love, we have to go to the source of everything we do: our minds.” — Todd Perelmuter
Romance has arrived and you have front door seats. Cupid’s arrow is aimed and couples are falling in love all over town, thanks to us. February is all about LOVE. Whether you’re actively looking for it or quietly wishing for it, LOVE is on everyone’s mind this month. You can run, but you can’t hide from the magic of Valentine’s Day. So, how is your love life? (Take a moment to think about it). Do you need a little extra help from our sweet, professional cupids this month? Well, good news—we’re right here in your local area, ready to help! As always, don’t forget to share this valuable info with your single family and friends—especially during this inspiring month. They might just be more motivated to take action than they think!
🏆 The Power of a Two-Some
Countless studies have shown that we’re at our best when we’re in a healthy relationship. It’s not money, fame, or beauty that brings true happiness—it’s togetherness. We ask people of all ages—from 20 to 80-plus—what their happiest moments have been, and the overwhelming answer is always the same: “The best time of my life was when I was in a loving, committed relationship.”
🎯 It Makes Perfect Sense
When you’re in a relationship, you have someone to share life’s joys with, and someone to lean on during the tough times. You have a partner to help you plan your future, and a person who becomes your rock, your sounding board, and your biggest cheerleader. Two beats one, any day of the week. Not only does this connection improve your emotional health, but it’s also essential for your physical well-being. A supportive relationship gives you something to look forward to every day, and that’s crucial for mental and physical wellness.
🚩 Taking Responsibility for Your Love Life
Deep down, no one wants to be single forever. Yet, many will be alone this February—and possibly longer—because they’re not owning their love life. They’re too comfy in their comfort zones, waiting for something to happen instead of making it happen. Some people blame others (or even an ex) for their single status, but here’s the truth: you are responsible for your relationship status.
🧐 Facing the Truth
In the world of dating, it’s easy to get stuck in patterns of blaming external factors rather than reflecting on our own actions, dating style, or mindset. Taking ownership of your love life requires self-awareness, self-improvement, and a willingness to face the discomfort that comes with stepping outside of your comfort zone.
Fear of rejection, getting hurt, or losing freedom often holds people back, but this is precisely what keeps them from finding happiness. Online dating can is a risky platform, and we get that. This is why we’re here! Unlike online dating, we vet every single candidate and connect with them personally. We act as personal cheerleaders, and sometimes we do hold up a mirror when we see our clients standing in their own way. Tough love leads to success, and we’re fortunate that most of our clients listen to us.
💪🏼 Taking Control Leads to Growth
Taking responsibility for your love life is a mindset that opens the door to personal growth and increases your chances of finding your grand finale relationship. Dating isn’t for the faint of heart—it’s a combat sport. You will take a few hits along the way, but you must keep going if you want to score the touchdown.
🏈 Know Your League
It’s crucial to understand what “league” you should be dating in. You can’t be a third-string player on a community football team and expect to date the head cheerleader of an NFL team. If you have incredibly high standards, make sure your attributes match what you’re looking for in a partner. Ask a brutally honest friend or, better yet, ask your matchmaker. We’ll give you the truth (while your friends might sugarcoat it. Most of our clients appreciate this transparency.
💯 Optimism and Open-mindedness
Remember, there is a pot for every lid. Don’t let low self-esteem hold you back from believing in love. If you find yourself thinking, “No one will ever love me,” STOP. You are lovable, and you deserve the best partner in the world. Start telling yourself: “I am lovable, and love is on its way.” Stay optimistic, and get off that negative train—it’s headed nowhere. Is that really where you want to go?
👯♀️ More Amazing Singles Than Ever
We’re excited to report that we’re meeting more incredible, like-minded singles than at any other time in our history. Nationwide exposure and a recent article in The Shiny Sheet has been an astronomical experience for the club and its’ members. Times have changed, and so has our matchmaking style. New candidates for men and women are walking through our doors every day. Our database is growing and ever changing, and the quality of matches pack a powerful punch.
🍀 The Right People Are Out There
We feel so fortunate to work with such attractive, successful, and positive clients. Our clients are too wise and too busy for the bar scene or online dating. They want quality, and they deserve it! They know what they’re looking for—and so should you.
In honor of love month, here’s one final piece of advice: “Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others. Love yourself, and you will be loved.” Love the world, and it will love you back. It’s the LOVE MOVEMENT. Join us and enroll today–before we book solid!
Happy Valentine’s Day Wishes and Caviar Dreams to all of you! May you find love in 2025—with yourself and with others. We are obsessed with 2025, and we can’t wait to make this year even better—together!
Thank you for sharing your time with us today. We appreciate all of you.
Xoxo – Kelly & Miranda
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Kelly Leary© has 35 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened in person, including background checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her Team also provide feedback from your dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast/Tri-State Area. Call the central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to hold your place in the club.4$