Special Edition By: Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capperelli
“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”~~Peter Drucker
As the pressures of a summer fling fall away and your expectations for love seem to loosen up, it’s the perfect time to give ample space for your new budding romance coming right at you. September holds a magical quality for matters of the heart. Sugar and spice are added to our matchmaking checklist and just in time for the pumpkin lattes. This is truly the time of year when romance is subconsciously at the forefront of our brains, especially those who are single. As the prelude to cuffing season, this month invites us to embrace change, step into new beginnings, and experience the journey of falling in love (again).
The Biological Spectrum of Change:
September is a bridge between seasons, a time when the universe seems to take a collective breath before the full embrace of fall. It’s a moment of subtle yet profound change, much like the shifts that often occur within ourselves when we’re open to new possibilities. Just as leaves change colors, we too evolve in response to the changing tides of life. This prepares us for the excitement that lies ahead – the prospect of finding a deep and meaningful connection. Did you know there are biological factors at play? Meaning, reduced exposure to the sun during the fall can affect mood and energy levels influencing the human body to biologically seek emotional support through relationships. This is exciting, right?
The Dance of Love:
There’s an undeniable rhythmic enchantment to falling in love and September seems to amplify this sensation. Whether it’s a stroll through a park adorned in autumnal beauty or sharing stories by a bonfire, September sets the stage for romantic encounters that are both tender and unforgettable. Date idea: Most of our clients enjoy live music and even dancing, so why not seek out a hot local band and/or simply turn up the music in the kitchen as you prepare your favorite meal with your new beau?
Anticipation and Excitement:
As the days grow shorter, the anticipation of cuffing season begins to build. The Pre-Holiday Season is the time of year when people seek companionship and want someone to cozy up with for the colder months. This idea of “cuffing season” may be seen as just one of many cultural influences through the media and how Hollywood portrays love, but there’s no denying you have not felt this exact feeling too. The idea of emotional warmth is desired this time of year, as well as wanting to be supported and connected. The knowledge that November and December are around the corner fosters a yearning for a partner, both in terms of physical comfort and emotional closeness. This anticipation can lead to thrilling adventures and unexpected encounters that culminate in deep and lasting relationships. It is said that relationships that begin in the Fall Season have a higher rate of longevity and sustainability.
Change Together:
September’s dreamy atmosphere offers an opportunity to embrace change as a couple, laying the foundation for a strong and forever partnership. Just as nature adapts to the seasons, couples can navigate transitions and uncertainties hand in hand. The support and comfort found in a loving relationship can make the challenges of the holidays feel less daunting.
The “Secret (and Confidential) Agents of Change” are at your service and have been for 33 years and counting. We are the catalyst to jumpstart your journey to embrace change and fall in love. Take this opportunity to work with the best matchmakers in the world who happen to be local (lucky you). Let us take one thing off your plate so you can focus on all the changes coming your way. Our goal is to encourage those to view love as an enhancement of their lives and not to be categorized as another thing to tackle on their to-do list. Let us welcome September with open arms and an eager heart, ready to experience the wonder of change and the joy of the season. Let’s hit the last part of 2023 with strength, optimism, and good energy.
XOXO, Kelly & Miranda (The Florida Matchmakers)
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Kelly Leary© has 33 years in the dating industry and a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She has been profiled by Modern Luxury Magazine this month as a Dynamic Business Woman. Look for it on the shelves. She has also been written about in The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, and many more. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened in person including background checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her team also provide feedback from your dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential.
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